My Family’s Legacy – University of Nebraska
The last school on the list
Of course, that hasn’t always been my state of mind.
There was a time when I was committed to taking a different path from my parents. I was 15 at the time, I just wanted to do my own thing, you know?
Distance was also an issue. I’m from North Carolina, and Nebraska is in the middle of the country, in the Midwest. I had never been this far out, and I had no idea what to expect to be alone in a completely different state.
Just kind of a stranger’s nervousness, honestly.
So I did all of my recruiting trips, and eventually, inevitably, I concluded the process with Nebraska being the last school on this list. Looking back, I guess you can really say that I saved the best for last!
After spending all this time thinking about other schools, I visited Nebraska and absolutely fell in love with the place.
I just remember thinking to myself, âNo way, it’s really happening right now. “
I know what it’s like to go on a trip, and you’re dragging your feet with no real two-way connection. But it was nothing like this when I visited Nebraska. I decided to come here because I felt wanted, and quite frankly, I just felt out of place.
At the time, I didn’t think I really understood or appreciated all that my parents did for me. They took the time, money and effort to get me from school to school without trying to influence my decision in the slightest.
It was all in my power and control over where I wanted to go.
I visited here last time and know it made them proud when I finally made the decision to sign. They have so many friends and colleagues here that I call my parents Lincoln. Having people take care of me really helps manage the distance too.